What is stimming?

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Stimming is a name for repeated movements, sounds or actions, like rocking, tapping or humming. People use them to feel calm, enjoy a sensation or show how they feel. Many people stim a little, and autistic people often stim more than others do. Stimming usually helps the person doing it rather than causing any harm. A stim that causes injury needs support aimed at the reason behind it. Stimming features in how autism is described, and restlessness is a sign of ADHD. AuDHD Psychiatry assesses adults for autism, and for autism and ADHD together, online.

Plenty of people grew up being told to sit still, stop fidgeting or put their hands down. Some still feel self-conscious about a movement or a sound that settles them, even as adults. Finding the word “stimming” can come as a relief, because it gives a name to something you’ve always done. At AuDHD Psychiatry, we see stimming as something people do for good reasons, not a fault that needs correcting.

At a glance

• What it is: repeated movements, sounds or actions, such as rocking, tapping or humming.
• Who stims: autistic people often stim more than others do.
• Why people stim: to feel calm, to enjoy a sensation, or to express a feeling.
• When to get help: a health professional can help when a stim causes an injury.

What does stimming mean, and what does it look like?

Stimming is short for “self-stimulating behaviour”, and it’s also described as a form of self-regulation [1]. A single way of stimming is known as a stim. The word covers a wide range of actions, from the very obvious to the barely visible. Many people stim, autistic or not, by playing with a pen, twirling their hair, tapping or whistling [1].

Stims are often grouped by the sense they involve, and a short list shows how varied they are [1]:

• Movement and balance: hand flapping, rocking, spinning or jumping.
• Sight: watching lights, patterns or spinning objects.
• Hearing: humming, or repeating sounds, words or phrases, often called vocal stimming.
• Touch: rubbing fabric or scratching.
• Smell and taste: sniffing or chewing objects.

You won’t always see a stim from the outside. Some are almost invisible, like repeating a phrase in your head [1].

Why do people stim?

People stim to enjoy a sensation, to stay settled or to let a feeling out. Autistic people describe these three purposes of stimming [1]. A stim for enjoyment might be watching lights or rubbing fabric, and it can tie in with sensory processing differences [1]. A calming stim soothes a strong feeling. An expressive one lets it out, like flapping with excitement or rocking in distress [1]. The same stim can mean something quite different to two different people [1].

A stim is best understood by asking what it does for the person doing it. In an interview study of 32 autistic adults in the UK, people described stimming as a way to soothe themselves [2]. The adults also said stimming helped them communicate intense emotions and thoughts [2]. Keeping those purposes in mind makes it easier to read a stim with kindness rather than worry.

Stimming in autism and in ADHD

Stimming appears among the NHS signs of autism for adults [3] and for children [4]. The examples given include rocking, flapping hands and flicking fingers. Our guide to the signs of autism covers the rest. In an autism assessment, stimming falls under “restricted and repetitive behaviours and interests”, one of two core areas [1].

ADHD is described differently. Among the hyperactive and impulsive signs of ADHD in adults, the NHS lists having a lot of energy or feeling restless [5]. Fidgeting, tapping or making noises can look a lot like stimming from the outside. Even so, stimming on its own doesn’t point to autism or ADHD, because the whole picture matters more.

Echolalia: repeating words and phrases

Echolalia means repeating words or phrases that you or someone else has said [8]. The NHS lists repeating words and phrases among the signs of autism in children [4]. Echolalia isn’t only autistic, though. Most toddlers repeat a lot of what they hear, and it usually drops off after about the age of three [8]. It’s also seen in Tourette’s syndrome, and in aphasia after a brain injury [8].

Researchers describe two kinds [8]. Immediate echolalia repeats something within a few seconds of hearing it. Delayed echolalia comes later, sometimes days later, and often borrows lines from songs, TV or films [8] [9]. Some people call this scripting [10]. Researchers now often treat echolalia as communication, used to take a turn, answer or ask [8].

Some therapists link echoed phrases to gestalt language processing, but a 2024 critical review found the idea lacks research support [10]. For help with how a child communicates, ask a GP or local autism team about speech and language therapy [11].

Why do many adults hide their stims?

Many adults hide their stims because they’ve learned that others may react badly. In the past, people tried to stop autistic people stimming so they would seem less autistic [1]. Autistic people describe this as a forced form of autistic masking, which can lead to anxiety and distress [1].

Plenty of adults still keep their stims small at work, like tapping a foot under a desk. Autistic women and girls may stim in quieter, more socially accepted ways, which can be one reason autism goes unnoticed [1]. In the interview study, autistic adults said stimming often wasn’t socially accepted, but could become accepted when others understood it [2].

When is stimming a concern?

Most stimming isn’t a concern, and a harmless stim gives no reason to stop it [1]. Two situations are worth a closer look: stimming to cope with distress, and a stim that causes harm. Where someone stims to cope with distress, the useful question is what’s causing that distress [1]. In that case, easing the source of the distress matters more than the movement itself.

Some stims can look like the compulsions of OCD, but stims usually feel soothing and have a purpose [1]. OCD compulsions, by contrast, feel distressing and unwanted [1]. If you’re worried about OCD, your GP is the right person to ask.

What if a stim causes harm?

Most stims cause no harm, but a small number can lead to injury. Examples include picking skin until it bleeds, pulling hair or hitting the head [1]. Stims like these are sometimes called self-injurious behaviour [1].

Support starts with the reason behind the stim, rather than the stim alone. A safe stim that does the same job can sometimes replace a harmful one [1]. Trying to stop a distressed person stimming, without dealing with the cause, can make the distress worse [1]. Ask a health professional, such as your GP, if self-injurious behaviour is hard to manage or puts someone at risk [6]. In an emergency, call 999 [6].

Could stimming point to autism or ADHD?

Stimming alone can’t, but alongside other lifelong differences it can be worth a closer look.

An assessment may help if:

• you’ve found social situations, change or routines hard since childhood.
• they make work, study or home life harder than it needs to be.
• you’ve long wondered whether you’re autistic, perhaps with ADHD too.

It might not be right today if:

• you need urgent help now. Call NHS 111 and choose the mental health option, or in Northern Ireland call Lifeline free on 0808 808 8000, any time. In an emergency, call 999 or go to A&E [7].
• you’re asking about a child: AuDHD Psychiatry’s child autism assessment covers ages 6 to 17, and a parent can be present.

If stimming is one of several lifelong differences, we can look at the wider picture with you. Our adult autism assessment and our assessment for ADHD and autism together both do that. Before either, you can book a free 15-minute call to talk it through. It’s for information, not an assessment.

Questions people ask

Is stimming only an autistic thing?

No, plenty of people who aren’t autistic stim as well, such as tapping a pen or twirling their hair [1]. Autistic people may stim more, though, and stimming may play a different part in their wellbeing [1]. The difference is usually how often someone stims and what it does for them, not whether they stim at all.

Can people with ADHD stim?

Yes, and restlessness is one of the hyperactive signs of ADHD the NHS lists for adults [5]. Research on stimming in ADHD is limited, though, so it’s hard to say how it compares with stimming in autism. If you’re unsure whether ADHD, autism or both explain it, one assessment can look at them together.

Should you stop stimming?

Usually not, because a stim that does no harm doesn’t need stopping [1]. Being told to stop can leave people feeling self-conscious about something that helps them. Where a stim does cause harm, swapping it for a safe stim that does the same job may help [1]. The aim is to keep what the stim does for the person, in a safer form.

Is stimming a sign of autism?

Stimming can be one sign, as repetitive movements like rocking or hand flapping are part of how autism is described [3]. Stimming on its own isn’t enough for a diagnosis, though. An autism assessment looks at the whole picture across two core areas, and stimming is only one part of one of them.

Why do people flap their hands when they’re excited?

Hand flapping can be a way of showing joy or excitement, one of the purposes autistic people describe [1]. The movement lets a big feeling out through the body, much as a cheer or a jump might. Flapping with happiness isn’t a sign of distress on its own. It’s one of the ways a person shows that something delights them.

What is echolalia?

Echolalia is repeating words or phrases, either straight away or some time after hearing them [8]. The National Autistic Society lists it among the stims linked to hearing, and notes that some see it as communication [1]. It’s common in toddlers and in many autistic children [8] [9]. The same repeated phrase can soothe one person and carry meaning for another.

In short

Many people stim in some way, and autistic people often stim more, for reasons that make sense to them. A stim that does no harm can stay as it is. A stim that causes injury deserves support aimed at whatever lies behind it. If stimming sits beside other lifelong differences, AuDHD Psychiatry can help you look at the wider pattern.

Related

• autism assessment for children
• how autism can look in women and girls
• what neurodivergent means

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